Whatever you life turns out to be, there will always be noise around you that distracts you from your goals. It takes time to learn how to ignore this noise and say "I'm not listening to this because it does not matter".
The problem is that what does not matter to you matters to someone else.
And what matters to you is noise to someone else.
Don't be distracted from your goals.
You are living your life, not someone else's.
“Keep Your Eyes On the Prize.” - Bryan Stevenson