When you speak with someone, listen with the intent to understand their point of view, not simply waiting for your turn to talk. It's a lot more difficult than it seems at first.
There is a reason why we have only one mouth but two ears....
This is an incredible skill to have. When you actually listen carefull to people, a new range of possibilities appears.
I know I've been terribly bad at this for years, but I am working on it. What about you ?